Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Happy to Help

So I was at Kaiser's (one of the bigger grocery store chains in Berlin) this afternoon to pick up a few things, and I walked up to the meat counter looking for some hähnchenbrust (chicken breast). A woman in a powered wheelchair rolled up to my left, just a second ahead of me. She was probably around 60 years old, white-haired, and quite heavyset. The butcher behind the counter hadn't seen who came up first, and she asked who was next, so of course I politely gestured to the woman and encouraged her to order before me. She did so, and the butcher disappeared into the back to go get whatever it was.

Image © mfi management für immobilien AG
The woman then turned to me and asked me a question in German. I have begun to be able to pick out a few words here and there, but frankly - my German is awful. I told her as much, in a broken mix of German and English, and asked Sprechen Sie Englisch? She shook her head No, but gestured to a shopping bag hanging from her chair down between her feet. The bag had a few cans and other groceries in it, but it had collapsed and partially fallen through the foot rests of the wheelchair, and I realized that she was asking for help in picking it back up. Her mobility was very obviously impaired - she could not bend forward to pick the bag up herself.

I quickly gathered the bag up and got it unstuck from the bottom of the wheelchair, and handed it up to her with a smile. She was quite appreciative and did manage an English "Thank you!", to which I replied (properly) "Bitte Schôn!". The butcher returned with the woman's ground rindfleisch (beef) - or maybe it was schweinefleisch (pork) - and the woman went on her way.

Five minutes later, though, I came upon her again in the candy aisle. She was looking up at the top row of candies, far out of reach. No one was bothering to help her. She didn't see me, but I thought she probably wouldn't mind a helping hand again, so I walked up beside her and smiled once more. I don't know how to say "Can I help you with that?" in German, but she got the message. After I grabbed her "Tic Tacs, zwei" (two boxes of Tic Tacs) and deposited them in her shopping bag, she asked another question which I couldn't understand, and sort of pulled her bag up and gestured towards the back of her chair. Even though I couldn't make out the words, somehow I understood that she was asking me to hang the shopping bag over the back of the chair, most likely because it had become too heavy to hold between her feet. And it was full anyway, so she must have been preparing to go through the checkout. I put the bag up, she said "Thank you" again a few times, I smiled, and we parted ways.

I grabbed my last few items, paid, and headed out into the hallway of the shopping center. I was happy to have had a friendly interaction with a type of person - that is, a non-English speaking German senior - that I rarely have a chance to speak with. I liked that the two of us, from completely different worlds in more ways than one, managed to communicate and share a simple experience together. It was gratifying.



Epilogue

As I walked down the long hall leading to the street, I saw the woman ahead of me again, rolling quickly towards the automatic doors, her bulging shopping bag slung from the back of the chair exactly where I'd left it.

That's odd, I thought. I don't remember seeing her in the checkout line, and I think I would have been there ahead of her anyway. I only remember seeing one checker - all the other lines were closed. Was there another checker that I didn't notice? Could she have paid somewhere without me seeing?

Did I just help an old woman shoplift her groceries?



Sunday, October 19, 2014

An October Sunday's Triumph


Exhausted after two late nights out in a row, I woke up this Sunday at half past noon, and spent the next two hours warming up my mind, joints, and muscles. We haven't been leaving the house much, for many reasons. Agoraphobia, fatigue, nausea, an ill pet, loads of work, and needed relaxation after many vet visits and doctors appointments.

Today there were many things to do at home. Many projects that need to be completed. But as the sun crawled onto the bed and grew only more alluring, Rahsan suggested we go out to the cafe, and I jumped on board. Every little piece of me needed what happened today.

First there was a sort of compromise. We were going to just pop across the street and work on some of our various projects, so we grabbed the laptop and headed out. But first, we decided to take our first trip to the city's glass recycling bins a couple of blocks away. This was one of those small tasks with a much larger significance. See, we moved into this apartment in March. Our building does not have glass recycling. We are able to recycle things like our beer bottles at the grocery store (8 cents a bottle - woohoo!) but wine bottles and most other glass needs to be taken to our neighborhood recycling bins. We've never done this. These bottles have been stacking up inside of our huge blue ikea bag since March, carefully placed so that we use up every square centimeter. It's been one of the thousands of goals that weighs on me. Every day I would look at that bag and think of all of the things I have yet to complete, all of the dreams I have yet to set free to the physical world. Well, today, we recycled our glass.

Today's magical fall afternoon was the perfect setting for this seemingly monumental feat. The sun was out and the temperature was around 21 C (70 F), as if Berlin's summer had come back for one last goodbye. It was so warm that we took off our sweaters after only a block. The streets were golden with a carpet of fallen leaves. The recycling bins are beside a little square with trees, benches, a playground, and one of the city's free outdoor public gyms. We first saw this gym - comprised of stationary recumbent bikes, sit-up benches, and some kind of elliptical-type thing - on one of our walks around the area a few months ago. It was the middle of a weekday back then, and there were a handful of older ladies lazily moving about on their piece of equipment. I giggled and thought, "Who would do this?" while also thinking, "Okay, that's a pretty cool use of public space". Well, today there were no ladies occupying the exercise machines, and Rahsan and I thought that meant we should keep the equipment company. That was a damn good decision. The sun shone on our faces as we laughed and took photos to commemorate our silly half hour. And thirty minutes is really the maximum amount of time needed to play on six pieces of equipment.

Instead of heading to our original destination, the cafe - which was also the way home - Rahsan suggested we walk in the opposite direction. Off we went, exploring the streets, forging a path into the depths of Neukölln, a path that we will surely use in the future. We walked by Ban Ban Kitchen, a Korean street food restaurant that Rahsan had heard of, which wasn't yet open (we returned later and it was delicious). We passed street after street and then agreed to cross over Hermannstrasse and wander the Tempelhof side of our neighborhood. Our tummies began to rumble, which was perfect timing because we were near Zio Felix, which makes the yummiest pizza I've had here in Berlin. There was a small crowd when we arrived; everyone joined in a sort of chorus of relaxed contentment. We sat at the window counter and expressed for the twentieth time that it was such a lovely day.

When we finished our margherita pizza and apfelschorle (sparkling mineral water mixed with apple juice) the place was full. We walked out and looked to the left, toward Tempelhof. The sun was a bindingly bright orange, and it drew us in. We walked like zombies past the various cafes, stopping only for a brief moment to take a picture and to buy a bottle of beer at the Spätkauf (corner store). The air was still warm and we hurried to the park.

Wow. The scene took my breath away. We have yet to visit Tempelhofer Feld for sunset, and it was everything we thought it would be. The huge abandoned airfield, now an undeveloped and fiercely protected sanctuary in the middle of Berlin, was filled with people watching the sun sink toward the horizon. Groups had gathered all along the ridge of the hill, and each minute that passed, everyone seemed to get quieter and quieter. We all stared at the sun as it disappeared, and stayed entranced by the changing colors of the sky.

Immediately upon sitting down, I began to cry a soft cry. Just watery eyes from a sense of great joy and amazement at the moment. Rahsan and I said what we say quite often to each other: "I can't believe we live here". We both felt overpoweringly lucky and affirmed in our great effort to move here. We worked really hard to get to this point, in the last year and in the last few hours.

I'm so glad I got out of bed today.




More photos!















Sunday, September 14, 2014

Taking Your Pet to the Vet in Berlin: An Expat's Experience

Flash enjoying the Berlin sun during a cone-free moment

When we were preparing to move to Germany, we didn't know what to expect from the veterinary system here. We've had to put it to the test over the last few months because our cat, Flash, has had some unexpected health problems. We would say that, given the right doctors, Berlin is a great place for your pets. The quality of care is equal to that in the US. The biggest challenge is the language barrier. A smile goes a long way, as do tearful, pleading eyes. And there are English-speaking vets out there, you just have to find them.

Finding a Vet


The symbol of a veterinary practice
A veterinarian is called a Tierarzt in German (Tier means animal, and Arzt means doctor or physician). Veterinarians seem to be relatively ubiquitous in Berlin, possibly because they are often small, individual practices. Walking around the city, they are easy to spot because they all have the same little sign above their doors - a black snake pole-dancing above a white "V" on a red circle. In the urban part of Berlin, most people are walking, riding bikes, or taking public transit, so you tend to see the same cluster of services - pharmacy, doctor, grocery, kebab stand, two cafes, four bars, etc. - every few blocks. But if you don't want to spend the time just wandering around hoping to come across your neighborhood vet, you might do what we did and Google it.

If you search Google in English, you're likely to come across some helpful advice from other expats on forums such as Toytown and AngloInfo. But it's best in combination with searches in German that include the name of your neighborhood - in our case, "tierarzt Neukolln". You'll find many listings this way, and often with starred Google reviews to help you pick one. But, if you need a lesson in Google search, remember that the perfect vet for you may not be one of the first ten results.

Before we left the US, we also used the German website of Hill's Pet, the maker of our cat's prescription food. This was initially just to be certain that we could get his food in Germany, but it was also a pretty good mapped listing of vets in Berlin. We found Dr. Kai Uwe-Dix in Prenzlauer Berg this way, and his office was our source of food for the first few months here.

Flash in his cone
Because we didn't want to take the time to find a new vet, and because we thought Flash would only have to go once, we took a taxi all the way from Neukölln to Prenzlauer Berg to see Dr. Dix when Flash started having trouble. But when it became clear that Flash's problem was more complicated then expected, we decided to find a new vet that was closer and that had more resources, expertise, and availability.

We were able to find the Zentrum für Tiermedizin, a full service, 24-hour veterinary clinic over in Schöneberg. It's still about 20 minutes away in a taxi, but we chose it because it has a large staff of good doctors - including one of the only animal neurologists in Berlin - and a modern facility with an in-house lab and imaging. Many of the small vet practices have limited hours, only one doctor on staff, and fewer on-site resources.

When he has his cone one, we have to hand feed him :)

Our Experience at the Vet

We've taken Flash to the vet five times so far in Berlin - twice to Dr. Dix, and three times at the Zentrum. Overall, the vets here in Berlin seem to be on par with those in Los Angeles. At Dr. Dix's office, there was a very small waiting room, which means that when there are two rowdy dogs, for instance, your cat will be in a living hell. Luckily, it wasn't too crowded when we visited. The exam room was large and doubles as the doctor's office. They have an x-ray lab in the back, but it's not digital, so when Flash needed an x-ray, we had wait for it to develop for thirty minutes. They kept Flash back there unnecessarily while we waited, which was another reason we decided to look for a new vet. The nurse assistant speaks relatively good English, which is very important. Dr. Dix's English was comparatively poor, but his manner and skill in handling Flash was excellent. He seemed kind and caring.

At the Zentrum, the waiting room is much larger but it is consistently busier than at Dr. Dix's practice. There is a second waiting room area off to the side that is a little quieter and more comfortable, and there is a consultation room behind heavy glass doors that you are allowed to bring your pet into while waiting, if it's not in use. It's quiet in there, with a little bubbling aquarium with fish and turtle. It's a blessing for Flash, who can't stand the barking dogs out in the echoey waiting room. The receptionists and nurses vary in their English proficiency, but the doctors all speak excellent English, which is fantastic for us.

The Zentrum facility is very modern. There are exam rooms on both the ground floor and the upper floor. The labs and surgery rooms are also upstairs. All of the exam rooms are networked, so no matter where you are, the doctors can pull up your file in an instant. This is particularly useful when you have to see different doctors, as we have. Flash has been seen by three doctors here, Dr. Wagner, one of the younger emergency doctors, Dr. Kück, one of the senior general physicians, and Dr. Deutschland, the resident neurologist. Yes, Flash's German neurologist is named "Dr. Germany".

Flash has a complicated condition, which is why we've had to take him in so much. Months ago, we noticed that he was licking and chewing on his back foot a lot. We took him to see Dr. Dix, who wasn't too concerned, and thought Flash may have slightly injured one of his toes somehow. He sent us home, with the instruction that if the problem didn't resolve itself in one week, that we should come back and he'd take x-rays. A week later, Flash was showing the same symptom, so we went back. Dr. Dix took an x-ray (Röntgenaufnahme), which showed no break or fracture. But the toe still appeared inflamed, so he gave Flash a 14-day antibiotic injection.

After about a week, Flash's foot was still about the same and he began showing other symptoms. Once or twice a day, he would have a fit where he would lick and bite at one foot, and then the other. His lower back and haunches would twitch, and he'd randomly bite at his skin. His eyes would be wide and he'd seem very agitated. We sent Dr. Dix a video of this, and he suggested that the problem could be neurological. This kind of freaked us out, so we thought it would be a good idea to get a second opinion. We chose the Zentrum because they advertised so many on-site diagnostic services and were open 24 hours, like a hospital. At this point, Flash's symptoms were concerning but he seemed mostly ok. We took him to the Zentrum and he was examined (examination is Untersuchung in German) by Dr. Wagner, who also suggested a neurological condition, and suggested we make an appointment with Dr. Deutschland.

Dr. Wagner also drew Flash's blood, which was a very traumatic experience for Flash (and us). It seemed to be very painful for Flash, as well as terrifying. Despite everything he's been through in the past - a life-threatening liver disease, a surgical procedure to install a feeding tube in his neck, multiple blood draws, many vet visits - this particular blood draw was worse for some reason. He's never howled so loudly, never become so violent, and never been so withdrawn afterwards. We've always been able to approach him and handle him no matter what he's been going through, but this time he was lashing out defensively even at us. Back at home, he still seemed traumatized, and even had a nightmare later where he growled in his sleep, something we've never seen him do. And every subsequent vet visit has been more difficult than ever - in the past, even after surgery and hospitalization, his return visits to the vet were pretty easy and he didn't seem especially stressed. But now, he's extremely stressed and strikes at anyone who comes close to him.

In fact, at Flash's first visit with Dr. Deutschland, Flash wouldn't allow anyone near him, so the doctor could only visually inspect him from afar and listen to our descriptions. Dr. Deutschland wanted us to spend two to three weeks eliminating possible environmental factors such as allergens and irritants. Dr. Deutschland was also concerned about Flash's skin health, observing that it looked oily and scaly. He gave us a bottle of Omega-3 and -6 oil to add to his diet. But, predictably, Flash wouldn't touch any food that smelled or tasted of the stuff, and got really nauseated and freaked out when we tried to give it to him directly. Our instincts told us that allergies or skin health were not the issue, but we took Flash home and tried to follow his instructions to the best of our ability.

Looking sharp in his Comfy Cone
One other possibility was a condition called Feline Hyperesthesia Syndrome, or Rolling Skin Disease, a rare and mysterious condition that is a diagnosis of exclusion. However, it seemed to fit more than anything else. Our research online indicated that stress could be one of the factors in causing or exacerbating this condition, so we also dedicated ourselves to reducing any stressors in Flash's life. What is ironic is that we have to take him to place that terrifies him, and that his treatment at home has consisted of of bathing him, oral injections of medicine, and wearing a cone - all things that stress him out.

The treatments mentioned above were prescribed by a third vet we saw at the clinic, Dr. Kück. We took Flash to see her after about a week of watching Flash's symptoms get worse. It got to the point where we were desperate to get him some relief. The biting and licking and twitching fits were more intense and frequent, and Flash seemed really uncomfortable. After an extremely difficult exam, in which Dr. Kück utilized heavy gloves fit for a falconeer and a big blanket, we were sent home with a whole bunch of things to do for him. A two week course of the anti-inflammatory steroid Prednisolone, a week of antibiotics, a daily anti-bacterial shampoo, anti-bacterial ear drops, and the dreaded Elizabethan collar to prevent any further infection caused by licking.

Paper towel to prevent licking the cone
While the treatments did clear up his infection, the licking and biting behavior continued, and we were stuck with keeping his E-collar on him all the time. The next step was to have Dr. Deutschland put Flash under light anesthetic and give him a very thorough examination and perform diagnostic radiology (Strahlendiagnostik) of his entire body. Fortunately, the doctor found that Flash's body was in very good health - no spinal problems, no arthritis, no problems with his organs. So, we're down to these possible conclusions: an unidentified seasonal allergy; an irritant or allergen in our apartment that hasn't been identified; feline hyperesthesia syndrome; or some version of allodynia, which is basically the sensation of pain without a reason or cause. Dr. Deutschland thinks it's possible that Flash is more sensitive to stimulus, like flea medication and the blood draw. He believes that we may never know the exact reason, so we're trying to treat it symptomatically. Currently, we're experimenting with a medication called Gabapentin, which is an anti-convulsant and analgesic that relieves the symptoms of both hyperesthesia and allodynia. We're seeing some reduction of the symptoms - and we're able to keep the E-collar off as long we're watching him closely - but it is still an ongoing process.

This looks way different than what it looked like on Amazon

Cost, Payment, and the EU Pet Passport

Your average examination (Untersuchung) is pretty cheap, from 10 to 15 euros, and then they add on charges for things like an injection (Injektion, 10 to 30 euros depending on what it is), taking blood pressure (Blutdruckmessung, 9 euros), etc. Blood tests (Blutanalyse) can get expensive if you do a full diagnostic, which cost us about 120 euros total. A whole set of full-body x-rays (Strahlendiagnostik) at the Zentrum cost 75 euros, while just a single x-ray of Flash's foot cost 36 euros at Dr. Dix's office. We paid less than 5 euros for his prednisolone, and his gabapentin comes out to roughly 17 euros for a month's supply. The initial visit with his neurologist cost 62 euros, but the follow-up was only 30 euros.

Neither vet we've used accepts credit cards, so you have to pay with a German debit card or cash.

If you're living in Germany, you should buy an EU Pet Passport (about 7.50 euros) from your vet - it's an official document for your pet so they can travel within the EU, and a record of their vaccinations and such.

Sunday, September 7, 2014

A Sunday Afternoon at the Alte Nationalgalerie


We haven't been able to get out much for the past couple of months because our cat has been having some health issues which has taken constant care and most of our spending money. But last Sunday he was doing well enough that we decided to take a few hours to make use of our Jahreskarte für die Berliner Museen (annual pass for the Berlin state museums).

Despite a very rainy morning, the day turned beautiful and sunny before we arrived at Museum Island in the afternoon. Walking from the train at Hackescher Markt to the Spree, we passed a bunch of anime cosplayers having a party in a park, and many tourists and locals enjoying the sun. We had set our sights on the famous Pergamon Museum, but there was a massive 2-hour line. We tried to get the security guard to wave us through with our Jahreskarte but apparently only the elite pass holders were allowed to skip the line.

But, we were next to half a dozen other museums, so it wasn't a problem. We ducked into the neighboring Alte Nationalgalerie (Old National Gallery), which is housed in a dramatic Prussian building. It contains galleries of paintings and some sculpture, most of which was from the 1800s, with emphasis on German artists. Below are links a few of the pieces we liked:

Wilhelm Gentz, Crown Prince Friedrich Wilhelm of Prussia enters Jerusalem, 1869

Osman Hamdi Bey, Persian Carpet Dealer on the Street, or The Carpet Seller, 1888

Arthur Kampf, Boy in Red, 1907

Sabine Lepsius, Self Portrait, 1885

Anton von Werner, A Billet Outside Paris, 1894

Adolph Menzel, The Dinner at the Ball, 1878

Berlin had been a bit breezy and there's a fall chill on the air, so this sunny Sunday was wonderful and made us feel that summer isn't quite over. We had a great time. And we were again so happy to have these annual museum passes that allow us to see amazing art on a whim!

Here are a few photos from the day!







Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Our Time In Sultry Barcelona

The alien pods of Gaudi's La Sagrada Familia

Barcelona was truly beautiful and quite magical. With the palm trees, warm weather, Spanish speakers (or Catalan which is very similar to untrained ears), and tourists or expats from the U.S. speaking English, we felt like we were back in California. I didn't know that'd be comforting, but it was. Berliners are friendly (especially this time of year), but there's no pressure to be, which is one awesome aspect of Berlin. In much of California (I've never lived in another state so I can't attest to the personalities outside it), people can be nauseatingly outgoing, and if you don't feel like smiling, well then you're not seen as a very nice person and should be avoided. Here in Berlin, the older generations are a little bit judgmental of all the youth and newcomers, and the younger generations are doing their own thing and aren't subjected to the social expectations of cordialness. It can feel freeing and relaxing. However, when in Barcelona, not only are the expats and tourists VERY sociable but the locals will smile at you for no reason at all! It surprisingly felt... familiar.

Mar Bella Beach
Wherever we go, we analyze our surroundings, comparing them to what we've experienced before. We discuss the people we encounter, the food we taste, the architecture we see, and the overall atmosphere of the place. Barcelona in a few words to us was friendly, warm, sultry, humid, humble, low-key. Here are some breakdowns:

The People
In most parts of the city that we visited, an emphasis on family life was evident. Local families were out enjoying the weather with their kids, playing in the parks and at the beach. The other predominant groups were the tourists - twentysomethings from all over the world, several dozen hen and stag parties, and American families and tour groups. Hordes of people move to and from the beach all day long, not only the tourists, but also a good number of locals who obviously go there often (we could tell by their deep tans). People were, in general, having a blast. Many men walk the 10 minutes between the Metro and the beach without a shirt on. Most women wore their bikinis under a simple dress that you could tell spent most of its time on the sand. Some beach-goers were even walking the streets without shoes.

Swing dancing at Barceloneta Beach
Elsewhere in the city, the shop-owners were mostly indifferent, but the waiters were affable and usually spoke some English. There were a surprising amount of locals who were young bohemians. Working people were there, though in the central parts of town they were hard to see through the crowds of tourists. There were also homeless people living in some public spaces and parks, and it appeared that no one bothered them.

We heard Catalan and Spanish, of course, and a smattering of other languages, like a group of Germans at the beach and a Chinese family at the museum. But we were surprised at how much English we heard everywhere, mostly from Americans. Apparently this was the time for American tourists to be in Barcelona.

The Food
We're not sure if we had bad luck but overall we were a little disappointed in the food we ate. We were expecting to be blown away because we heard so much praise about the cuisine in general and had several specific restaurant recommendations to follow. The thing is, the food generally fell short, especially compared to Paris, where even the nutella crepes sold in the tourist areas are mind-melting, and Berlin, where you can find an assortment of international food including yummy shawarma and doner. One important note: the wine is really cheap even at nicer places and very, very good! Especially if you're not a fan of their type of beer, their cheapest white wine is a great option. We didn't try the sangria, which seemed to be very popular. Here are our breakdowns of the restaurants:

Fermin Bodega on Placa del Poeta Bosca in Barceloneta was a random choice - we were passing though looking for a quick snack and chose this place because they had an open table outside on the Placa. It was a good place for people watching with a cheap glass of wine, some olives and house-made sausages.

Tapas at Marcos Boqueria
Also in Barceloneta, we followed the recommendation of a Spaniard we met in Berlin, and sought out a seafood place called Can Mano on Calle del Baluard. It looked promising - a small place packed with locals on a narrow street. The atmosphere was very simple and authentic, with florescent overhead lights, rusting fans, ancient wooden doors and windows thrown open, and a kind old man ushering us to a table (after a short wait). We weren't sure what to order, and unfortunately they were out of the first two fish choices we made. So by process of elimination we ended up with a tortilla espanola, some rough cut fries, and a plate of calamari. The calamari and fries were decent but nothing special, and only the tortilla was particularly interesting. It's a classic Spanish dish, not at all like the tortilla a Californian associates with the word - it's actually an egg-and-potato omelette, soft and savory. So overall we were a little disappointed, although the experience of being there with all the boisterous locals was rewarding.

Later, we sat outside the Basilica de Santa Maria del Mar and ate gelato from a place called El Born Minyo on the edge of the placa. We tried this Catalan caramel flavor that was very creamy and delicious, and a nicely balanced rum-raisin concoction (at least we thought it was rum, there were definitely raisins in it!).

1 Euro juices at La Boqueria
On Saturday, we headed to La Boqueria, the famous and very crowded central market. We would have probably sat at this one seafood counter for lunch, but it was so slammed with customers that we ended up just having wine and cheese at a slightly quieter wine bar and ham shop on the edge of the market. We also ordered pan (bread), and what came was a baguette sliced into small pieces and brushed lightly with tomato and olive oil, so that the top of the bread appeared red from the juice of the tomato and the few flecks of it left behind. Very simple, but a nice, light flavor. I think this is what you might call "Catalan toast" in English. After this, we walked around and picked out some nice fat cherries and dried bananas to take with us to the beach. We also tried one of the well-known juice stands at this market. A strawberry mango mix was very sweet and refreshing, less acidic then we expected.

That evening, we followed another recommendation to a sushi restaurant not far from where we were staying. Ikkiu, on Calle Princesa, was small and informal, with a couple of nice waitresses who spoke pretty good English. All of the tables were full, but we were able to sit at the bar. Since seafood in Barcelona is supposed to be great, we had high expectations for the sushi. Perhaps the fact that we didn't see any Japanese people working here should have been a sign that it wouldn't be up to the standard of fantastic sushi in California, but we were hoping to be surprised, especially since our friend had said the maguro don was incredible. And indeed, the maguro itself was delicious and melted in your mouth, apparently marinated for extra flavor. But the bed of rice underneath it was definitely nothing like Japanese rice and had been overdressed with soy sauce. A flying fish roe sushi was good, but again taken down by the rice inside. It would only be worth going back for the maguro, as sashimi perhaps!

Outside Can Mano
We were on a mission to sample small plates at a couple of places, so even though it was midnight we headed over to restaurant named Cerveceria Catalana. It was very popular and a lot fancier than anywhere else we'd gone. Here we tried the national dish of patatas bravas - fried potatoes with spicy tomato sauce and alioli - and a plate of small, lightly seasoned clams. Both were good, if a little overpriced.

For our last dinner on Sunday, we decided to go to Mercat Princesa, because it looked interesting and we'd been walking past it every day since it was directly across from our building. It's a big modern place, set up like a market with counters serving different specialty tapas, both Spanish and international. Some of the counters were closing, since it was late, and we weren't in the mood for Italian or for more ham products, so we sampled some more sushi and another variation of patatas. It was a great looking place but the food was just ok, so we'd probably only go back for the dessert counter, which looked tantalizing.

The Sights
Exterior of La Sagrada Familia
In a city that seems inexpensive, we were shocked at the prices of some of the tourist sights, or surprised that some had prices at all. For instance, La Sagrada Familia costs 14 euros each to even get close to, and another 5 euros on top of that to go up one of the towers. These prices don't include audio guides or a visit to the museum. Pretty hefty. I wonder if this is because of cost of the never-ending construction (it's scheduled to be finished sometime in the 2020s, close to 150 years after it was begun).

Toward the skylight above the altar
La Sagrada Familia is worth the money, however. The exterior is more intricately decorated than you even imagine, covered in organic forms of trees and leaves, animals, and religious figures. Only certain parts were finished - the other sections are standing but waiting to be decorated. The interior is breathtaking. When we walked through the doors, we were expecting it to be in the same style as the outside. But, in stunning contrast, inside is straight out of an idealized sci-fi future vision of a cathedral. The vaulted ceilings are taller than most cathedrals, and the smooth, clean pillars soar upwards in a way that enhances the effect of height. The eye is drawn to the top by the rushing, converging lines, and light is channeled to the ceiling, creating a natural focal point.

The grand entrance at Parc Guell
Something that has recently changed is the fact that the city now charges an entry fee to the most interesting bit of Gaudi's Parc Guell. Not so long ago the whole park was free. Now you have to pay 8 euros for the privilege of getting close to the famous buildings and to sit on the snaking tiled bench. You can walk around in the greener parts of the park and up the trails on the mountainside. Up there, we saw locals hiking and walking their dogs, photographers shooting engagement pictures, and an artist sketching. It is magical and well worth you time to walk the paths of the free area. We entered the paid area a bit late in the evening so there weren't too many people and we were able to spend some quality time with Gaudi's designs and really appreciate them. They are beautiful and light-hearted, and a joy to see. But, they really should have kept it free to all, and focused on generating revenues through merchandise, concessions, and guided tours, or stuff like that. It's sad to think that Barcelona residents can't even use a big chunk of the park Gaudi designed for them without paying.

The line for the Picasso Museum (free day)
The Picasso Museum is right around the corner from where we stayed, inside a complex of old buildings on a very narrow pedestrian-only street. We were lucky enough to be there on the monthly free day (every first Sunday), so the only price we had to pay was waiting in a long line for about an hour. We were very glad that we didn't have to pay the normal entry fee (from 11 to 14 euros each), because the collection was surprisingly small. The permanent exhibit begins with a great, in-depth survey of Picasso's earliest works as a young teenager when he attended art school in Barcelona. This part of the collection takes you year-by-year through his remarkable development as a young artist. In fact, the narrative is so compelling, that when it abruptly stops and skips decades forward to his post-Cubist work, we felt confused and let down. We had to walk around and check the map to make sure that we hadn't missed a section. But unfortunately, this museum doesn't have much at all of his most well-known periods. Those works are in Paris and elsewhere. Aside from seeing the surprisingly advanced and mature paintings he created when he was only a pre-teen, the chief highlight was a collection of Picasso's re-interpretations of Diego Velazquez's Las Meninas. In 1957, he painted 58 responses to this classic painting, from tiny studies of individual figures to giant re-imaginings of the entire piece. He donated the entire suite to this museum in the 60s, and it's clearly the best reason to go here.

At Parc de la Ciutadella
Parc de la Ciutadella is also near where we stayed. This park was built in 1877 (about 30 years before Parc Guell) and has a historic zoo, museums, and other buildings, as well as lots of green space defined by paved paths. There's also a big, gorgeous fountain which we were intending to come back and see but we ran out of time on the trip. The park connects to the Arc de Triomf, a big red-brick arch in the style of the famous arches of Paris and Rome. However, unlike those built for specific memorial purposes, this arch was built in the 1880s to be the main gate of the Barcelona World Fair. The most unique thing about this arch is that the broad Passeig de Lluís Companys leading up to it is lined by large, very ornate lamp posts that are exceptionally pretty, especially at night.

While walking to a restaurant, we stumbled on one of the apartment buildings that Gaudi designed. It was late, but the entire building was brightly illuminated to show off the curving balconies and towers, and thus it stood out sharply next to all of the darkened buildings around it. Gaudi's shapes are playful and fantastical, and clearly must have inspired the designers of Disneyland.

The facade of a Gaudi apartment building
Barceloneta beach and Mar Bella beach were the two beaches we sunbathed on, and they were both great. We were warned that Barceloneta beach was packed with tourists (which we generally don't like), but we really enjoyed our time there. And Mar Bella beach is a little further from the center, but no less populated. There was so much life on both of these beaches - families playing in the water, people playing volleyball and other games, surfers and paddle-boarders, groups of young friends laughing and drinking, and couples kissing on the sand. The water was beautiful and the breezes were warm. There was a positive vibe, happy and relaxed. People were not irritated with each other or competing for space. It was crowded but there was no negativity. We turned a few heads in our bathing suits, and I don't think it was because of our smoking bodies, but rather the blinding whiteness of our skin next to the deep brown tans of everyone else. We felt as though we were surrounded by locals who lived on that beach, but we would hear American English accents and know that they were tourists, which showed that no matter if they've grown up there or have been there for 2 days, they were settled in and joining in the joy and relaxation. Since Mar Bella beach is a little further and edged by a big parking lot, it doesn't feel as connected to the city and is more of a classic beach scene, and the sand is significantly finer and smoother. Barceloneta beach extends out from a boardwalk that is fronted by restaurants, shops, and bars and just a few meters from the Barceloneta neighborhood, so it feels very much like you can just step from the city onto the sand. And there is a lot of activity - there was swing dancing on the boardwalk on our first day, and live Capoeira the next.

One boyfriend spent an hour burying the other, before putting sunglasses on him and laying down beside him

The City and the Atmosphere
We were pleasantly surprised to find that our Airbnb place was in the historic El Born district. All of the streets are very narrow and most were carless, and the buildings were very old. The closest experience we've had to being here was walking the tight streets of Venice, although without the canals, of course. We were right next to the imposing Basilica de Santa Maria del Mar and a nice open placa lined with restaurants and bars. The rest of the city varies between old buildings and newer construction, medieval streets and broad modern boulevards. Lots of benches and outdoor tables encourage people to sit outside, so there's always the sound of conversation and people having a good time. The laid back cultural vibe is infectious, and the good weather is relaxing. It seemed like everyone was just trying to enjoy life.

We arrived at the perfect time to catch this light,
and then it was gone
A view from our balcony


Epilogue: The Trains

We found that nothing in Barcelona really runs on time. The Metro is relatively reliable, and the buses are pretty frequent, but the posted times or those on the web seem more like suggestions than hard timetables. But it's fine, we got around in the city without too much trouble. The regional commuter trains, on the other hand, were pretty awful. They are what you use to get to and from the airport, so it made that part of our trip difficult. On Friday afternoon when we arrived, the C2 train from the airport to the city center stopped about halfway and we sat there for over 40 minutes. There were a few brief announcements (in multiple languages, thankfully) just saying that there was a problem on the track ahead and that they were working on it. But we never knew what happened. The local commuters on the train with us seemed really frustrated, and when we arrived downtown there were hundreds of people in that station who had clearly been waiting for this train that whole time.

Early Sunday morning we went to catch the C2 in the other direction. We'd studied the timetables and planned carefully to make sure we'd have enough time to make the single connection and still make it to the airport on time for our flight, even if there was another train delay. We boarded the train at the station, but after about 10 minutes it still hadn't left. There were no announcements and no change to the departure signs on the platform. It was before 6 am, so the station was almost empty, and it took a while before we saw anyone to ask. The guy just kind of shrugged and told us that no, this train wasn't
going to leave and that our train was actually on another platform. We ran over there, but that train's departure time was too late to make the connection. So we ran outside and grabbed a taxi to take us to the connecting station which was just a couple kilometers away. It was a good decision - the taxi got us there on time and we were able to get on an airport train. But, it was the last train we could have taken and still made our flight!

And one final tip... in Berlin, Google Maps will give you very precise and reliable transit information in the Directions section, with accurate timetables and good suggestions for which U-Bahn, S-Bahn, and bus lines to take. It's great for when you're out and can just check your phone for directions without a worry. In Paris, Google basically has given up trying to figure out the Metro and bus system and pretty much chokes on any of your search requests. In Barcelona, by contrast to both of those cities, Google confidently returns search results with lines, times, and everything. The only problem is that once you actually get out on the street they are completely wrong. Lines and buses that Google suggests turn out not to be running, there is somehow no information on the regional commuter trains at all, and every departure time is wrong, often by a lot. So, just a warning - don't rely on your Google Maps app alone to get around. But relax - you're in Barcelona, after all!


More photos!

Barceloneta Beach



Can Mano


At Parc de la Ciutadella





Outside of La Sagrada Familia



Dr. Seuss staircase

Inside La Sagrada Familia

The stained glass is remarkable

Every inch of this place makes a statement

Rahsan looking like a bad ass

"En el nom del Pare I del Fill I de l'Esperit Sant"
Light fills the basilica from the floor to the vaulted ceilings

Sketching

Awaiting the addition of stained glass

The ceiling was in itself captivating


God watches over you like a gargoyle. Or Batman.

Again, it's difficult to describe how alien it is there, beautiful but dangerous

The view from one door to another

Forest and canopy

The unfinished clear windows with their pure white light wait to be devoured by the vibrant stained glass 




At Barceloneta Beach

Translating the Catalan menu at Ikkiu

Darnit!

Courtyard of the Picasso Museum

A young lady of Avignon


At La Boqueria


Mercat Princesa
Mar Bella Beach

Built-in throne, one of several

A flyer at one of the back entrances to Parc Guell, protesting the privatization and poor management of this formerly free public space
Parc Guell

Barcelona laid out behind us




Peek-a-boo



One of the staff members told us that this Gaudi house was not worth the hour wait in line



A Gaudi apartment building

Another view from our balcony